Howdy do everyone? The weekend is upon us and we are here for it. We had some nice rainy weather off and on this week and I'm always down for that. Not only is it calmer feeling for me than sun blazing in my face and a wall of gross when you step foot outside but it helps keep the never ending outdoor construction dust at bay. I swear I don't know how long it takes to build a three tenant building but these effers are going for a record. (And that's the second construction project. The one on the main road has made zero progress in our neck of the woods over the past three months and they work on random stuff wherever the bulldozer lands for the day.) So to say we haven't been on the patio at all this year except twice that I can remember between heat and dust isn't an understatement. I'm always amazed my car isn't buried under an entire mound of dirt each week.
But now let's dig up...
Ashley Judd Says Family Grieves Differently After Naomi Judd's Death (This family is perfectly approaching the individual grieving process and everyone's right to do so that is right for them. As members of a family that was ripped apart by how others tried to dictate we all grieve, this is the most important article of this round. Books
like this can also help you navigate the process.)
We are taking some time off this weekend to decompress. It's been a not so great mental week on many fronts and we need some time to reset da brains. We're going to unplug and not work on the house right now so that we can forget a bit of the crap fest that has been the past month (plus). It put a choke hold on the marriage for a little while and if we're going to come out on the other side after attempting floors then we need to get in a better headspace and set some rules up. While that doesn't sound like fun, anything will be better than how we've spent the last month and if we've learned nothing, it's that we need an actual plan and to learn how to respect each other's process going forward. (Also looking forward to prioritizing a little relaxation in there too.)
What's on tap for you guys this weekend?
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The weekend will be grocery shopping, working in the basement, swimming for the pooch, walking the pooch, and meal plan/prep for the week. Have a wonderful and relaxing weekend!
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