What I'm Reading This Week #13
Friday is finally here! Can I get a woot woot?! (Cheers to those who actually did it.) The week felt long to start but then before we knew it...blam! Friday. We had the countertop dude out to measure and template Tuesday. The lady who made the appointment said it would be 2-3 weeks after so I'm hoping for sooner than later so I can FINALLY reveal the bathroom to you guys! Kind of stinks though because we were told they would take the sink/faucet with them and that was a big fat no. We were looking forward to getting that big azz box out of the house. Soon enough I guess. You may have noticed a little zhuzh to the site (probably more for those on laptops) but I figured it was time and I think they retired my previous theme anyway. So it's a little minimalistic but there wasn't a ton to choose from on the free side so I took what I could get. Enjoy. š I sat down and did a spreadsheet of my seeds, when they were...
I wanted to have a good healthy relationship with neighbors but we got what we got unfortunately. That next door app is a nightmare as far as I'm concerned and it only leads to certain neighbors having power over others in a popularity contest - no thanks!
ReplyDeleteI use the Nextdoor app and like it - quick info for accidents, lost dogs, break ins, etc. If there is anything inappropriate, can report with the click of three buttons and it is removed very quickly.
DeleteI have 2 neighbors i am close to and several i just say hi to. I would love a closer community for sure.
ReplyDeleteNot sure if that's a thing anymore.
When we moved on our next door neighbor was crazy (literally). His sister ended up putting him in a home, the house got flipped, and a nice younger couple moved in. A nice couple our age moved in on the other side of them. That's really all we know - we aren't buddies but I do feel better knowing someone is keeping an eye out when we're out of town etc.
ReplyDeleteThe neighbors on our street have never been interactive and while they'll wave in their cars, are more likely to put their heads down if they walk by your house and you're standing outside. There's a couple of really nice neighbors right next door and across the street, so that's helpful. I have a friend who's lived in her house for over 30 years and she said the only reason she does not move (outrageous taxes) is because her neighbors are amazing. They all help each other cut lawns, shovel snow, walk dogs, make meals, drive to appts, etc, etc, etc -- and half the time she said it's without even being asked! You wake up and someone has cleared your driveway for you. I've told her I've always been envious of that because that's what I envisioned when we bought our first house, but that's far from the reality.
ReplyDeleteWe are a bit of a combination. We have ones we try to avoid, ones we smile and wave at but never really speak more than a few pleasantries with, and we have others where we will help shovel their driveway, help with yard work, or walk their dog.
ReplyDeleteThe neighbors on one side are not great. To be fair, it's actually mostly their adult son (who lives the next street over) that is a passive-aggressive jerk. The ones on the other side are pretty nice, and have watched my house in a pinch when I've been out of town but I don't know them super well. Mostly it's a smile and wave - but I think that's mostly my fault. I'm not good at reaching out and meeting people and I've lived here too long to start now. I should have made the effort when I first moved in (I've been here almost 20 years, and 4 of my near neighbors were already here when I moved in).
ReplyDeleteWe have been in this house for over 20 years. Previous house 15 years. Both neighborhoods we have known lots of people.
ReplyDeleteWe know all our current neighbors, our street and the street behind us. I send Xmas cards to most of them. I have most of their cell phone numbers.
My husband has played tennis with two current neighbors for 35 years. Some others we have also known 25+ Years.
Our conversations/contacts for the last two years have mainly been text. We keep each other alerted, pass on info.
I have been cleaning out for three years, so often I am texting what is available for rehoming. We are older, several still have kids at home, it is a good system. I put things on porch, they pick up/rehome.
When the weather is nice, short daily conversations across the lawn.
I watch one of the neighbors dogs if she goes in the office or on vacation, at my house, for free, love those Goldens. I use to have them every work day, but she has been working from home now the last two years. I helped her with a new puppy 4 years ago. (To give you an idea, I had one of her current dogs for the month of November, when she traveled with the other dog to help her daughter in the east coast with a new baby. The one she took is super good. I kept Golden rescue she got this summer, he is still learning.)
We have been home, my daughter had Covid over Xmas. My backdoor neighbor checked on us, via text, every day for two weeks.
So I probably have what you would like to have.
One thing that I think makes a difference. We are in a large neighborhood with big houses and very very strict rules. So a lot of the things that cause problems are not here. No one can park/store anything like campers, boats. Garbage cans must be in the garage. No detached buildings/sheds. Lawns must be maintained. Ever single thing must be approved (fences, paint colors, remodeling, swing sets, etc). So property values stay high and the neighborhood stays beautiful.