Hello hello, mah peeps! I hope you had a good week. A quick birthday shout out to my FIL. I'm sure he's whipping up quite a party up there and DJing like he used to back in the day.
It's very hard to not think that today was supposed to be our first full day walking Ogunquit Beach in Maine after finding a place we could finally afford there. I'm also failing at knowing we should still be gone for another week. and we're especially bitter given what a complete disaster our attempt at a smaller getaway was when we stayed at the worst place we've ever rented a few days ago. When I say there was nowhere comfortable to sit/sleep, I mean NOWHERE. The Mr is crippled and we spent our anniversary hoping he didn't end up on a telehealth call for strong pain meds. I had borderline migraines daily and by the end was also limping with my SI joint joining the hobble party. It rained torrentially every single day which we're fine with normally but when you have nowhere to sit to relax to take it in that doesn't kill your body, being inside isn't much of a treat. I've had a migraine every single day since we came back all day and night because of how bad the bed, pillows and makeshift pillows screwed up my neck and back. So, money and health wasted on a place that was lipstick on a pig because we had to scramble and take what was available with such short notice and in our price range. Thanks Chester Cheeto.
We're thankful to have the cushion monetarily we got from having to cancel the real vacation but there's basically no mental break this year and that is bad. We both agree we are worse off than we were before we left last week in so many ways. I tell myself it'll allow us to save up for our 30th anniversary next year so we'll just hope the places we had to cancel are able to be rebooked for next year assuming everything works out. (Just checked- the Ogunquit place is now out of our price range. Please hold while I primal scream into the abyss.) It's Mothers Day weekend which will be a hard time to not have distractions because we always had them on vacation. We were always gone for this holiday so it's really in my face this year. I know, I'm a barrel of happiness right now but you guys know I keep it real in these parts. So that's what we're dealing with going into this weekend while getting bombarded with 8 zillion mother's day ads, emails and commercials I have to mute. I know that sounds like first world problems, but think of something you look forward to yearly that you
need for your mental health. Whether it's a cousin's gathering/family reunion, girls weekend getaway, a favorite trade show or fair coming to town, or whatever your "I can always count on this ONE thing for happiness every year" for decades it's been our anniversary trips for us, then rip it away for no good reason. So yes, pass the cheese with my whine.
Extra sharp cheddar please. š
Anyhoo, let's barrel into:
We don't have anything official planned except trying to recover so I guess that leaves the field wide open. I'm sure we can find something that needs fixed, painted, sanded, cleaned or organized. I know I need to keep busy this weekend one way or another.
What are you doing to keep busy this weekend? Any Mother's Day plans for you mamas?
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Hobbling after a vacation was definitely not in the cards but here we are. Have a great weekend everyone!
ReplyDeleteHappy Anniversary, 29 years what a blessing you luckybutts!
ReplyDeleteHopefully you come up with a getaway once you recover from this one. I'm heading to Iowa on Sunday. I have the van loaded with a lazyboy couch i got on buy nothing to bring to my friend.
My bestie wants to meet Elmer, Mom's bestie is really sick so I'm going to visit her and finally visit Mom's resting place. My back lawn is a jungle and my mower is on the fritz so I'm taking a chance on a marketplace one because I can't see investing alot on a new one. Some drywall to repair also.
Have a great weekend!
I am so sorry your getaway was such a disaster. Reading about how bad the furniture was brought me right back to one of two of our worst vacations ever...for the very same reason. Not one comfortable chair, couch, bed, nothing. The paddle boat was in sludge and we were covered in it trying to get out to haul it on shore. Miserable week...and that was the hub's 30th birthday. Blech. This was not what you needed that's for sure and that plain sucks.
ReplyDeleteI just want to get through the weekend with my heart intact.
No plans. The weather here is finally spring. We planted potatoes this week. Hubs been mowing the yard. My Mom has been gone since 2012. Yes, we still say Happy Mother's Day to her.
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